These days I'm a grandmama, and I've learned a thing or two since the days of detangling my daughter's pretty blonde hair. :) For those times when my baby grand is around (I never call her that in person, but it makes me laugh in writing), we now have Kandoo hair detangler.
This is a salon-quality product that uses natural ingredients to moisturize and condition. It's lightly scented (the scent reminds me of a salon) and it isn't one bit greasy. It also comes with a mini trigger that sprays a fine mist and is designed not to clog.
It is tear-free, does not contain parabens, sodum lauryl/laureth sulfates (SLS), phthalates, BHA/BHT or petroleum distillates found in some detanglers.
Kandoo makes other great products too, like Kandoo Flushable wipes, Bubble Bath, and a deliciously scented Hand & Body Wash for kids. If you check their website, they've got a lot of most excellent ratings from very happy customers.
You can learn more about Kandoo Kids by visiting the website. You can also follow them on Facebook and/or Twitter.